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The Peace That Comes After Forgiveness

5/31/2026

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❝ Forgive everyone. Forgive everything. Forgive every time. ❞— Kashanta Sims
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The person who hurt you may never apologize, but your healing doesn't have to wait for their permission.
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​Forgiveness is healing. It doesn’t necessarily mean you will forget what happened, nor does it excuse the pain that was caused. What forgiveness does is free your heart, mind, and body from the burden of carrying bitterness. When we hold on to unforgiveness, it can weigh heavily on us, affecting our emotional well-being and, in many cases, our physical health as well.
Medical professionals have increasingly explored the connection between emotional health and physical healing. While forgiveness is not a cure for illness, many studies suggest that chronic anger, resentment, and stress can have negative effects on the body. It is logical, then, to recognize that unforgiveness can nurture bitterness, and bitterness can negatively impact the mind, body, soul, and spirit. You have nothing to lose by forgiving and so much to gain—even when the person who hurt you never asks for forgiveness.

For those who follow Christ, forgiveness is more than an act of willpower; it is an act of grace. Through Him, we receive the strength to forgive in ways that surpass our natural ability.

Forgiveness does not guarantee that every struggle, illness, or hardship will disappear, though sometimes healing comes in unexpected ways. What it does offer is something precious: the peace of God. Unlike the peace the world gives, His peace cannot be taken away, even in life's most difficult seasons.

With Love and Compassion
Kamilia Watson


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When Healing Begins Within

5/19/2026

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Even on the hardest days, there is still purpose, hope, and the presence of God.
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What is one thing you can do to take care of yourself today?

Don’t let your expectations control your response to God. Try to find joy and laughter in the little things. Identify the purpose within your daily existence. Smiling can help when your day is difficult. It’s a step toward reshaping your external and internal environment. Research shows when you smile, feel-good hormones are released in the form of dopamine, endorphins, and serotonin.

The goal is to find small ways to boost your mood—listen to your favorite inspirational song, hear an uplifting story, watch an episode of Friends that brings you comfort and laughter, or spend quiet time sitting by the water praying and resting in God’s presence. If the pain of today is too taxing, even for a smile or your favorite activity, try resting in the presence of God, and that will be enough. Always try.


Today, I pray that God’s strength, peace, and power will be with and surround you during treatment and that you will allow Him to take your suffering and use it for His glory. I pray for you to know that while every day may not be a good day, and every moment may not be a good moment, throughout every moment of the day, God is still good. May you draw peace from knowing this truth—it will never change because He never changes. Lastly, I pray that even if your circumstances don't change, you will begin to realize your outlook on life can. That’s healing, and that’s a start.

With Love and Compassion
Kamilia Watson


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Between Pain and Promise: Held by Jesus

5/5/2026

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In a world filled with “artificial everything,” authenticity is needed...

Because real pain doesn’t respond to empty words, it needs something real to hold onto.

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In your distress, you can cry out to God for help (Psalms 18:6). I say these words fully knowing the kind of weight they carry firsthand. Last night was another night of extreme physical pain and misery, but in it, I cried out to the Lord for help again. I felt His presence with me. No, the pain did not leave, but He was right there, comforting me and bringing me peace.

There’s nothing worse than hearing someone casually throw around words like “everything will be okay” or “it’ll get better soon,” while at the same time you can feel how disingenuous those words are. To make matters worse, sometimes they come from someone who hasn’t known deep pain, someone who hasn’t faced a diagnosis like cancer that changes life as they knew it… like you have.

That’s why I want to be real with you in this moment. While I may not know your pain or the details of your journey, I know my own. And I know this: I never could and never would want to walk through it without my sweet Savior, Jesus. That’s why, here in this space, there will always be an invitation for you to come to Him. But hear me well, you shouldn't expect a life without pain. Instead, expect Him to be with you in it.

In my opinion, there’s something deeply human and comforting about hearing from someone who has walked through real pain or a life-altering diagnosis. Why? Because you know they’re speaking from experience. And even if it’s just for a moment, you feel lifted. But Jesus… He did more than just relate to your pain. He took on all the pain and suffering you would ever experience when He chose the cross for you. So I’m inviting you into something deeper than a temporary lifting. I’m inviting you to be held. Held for a lifetime by Jesus, so that one day, every tear and every ounce of pain will be completely wiped away (Revelation 21:4).

With Love and Compassion
Kamilia Watson









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    I am Kamilia Watson, author of the Healing Hearts faith-based cancer support blog series.

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